Jan. 14th, 2019

[info]maliciousintent in [info]rpvents

Nothing is more horrible than finding out, entirely too late, that players in your game were being so toxic that they were telling flat-out lies to other players about things the moderator was saying. This was to the point that the players being lied to thought they were going to be removed from the game by the mod. Uh... what?

I know it's 100% my fault. I didn't want to kick them out when they were shitty toward me, because I felt that I was just having hurt feelings about something said. It was possible that it was just a misunderstanding. I didn't want to ruin the rest of the game's fun and I didn't want to be the "monster mod" that I've been accused of being before. I withdrew and pretty much just let them run around free, because I couldn't stand to open up the page every morning to read what fuckery they were getting into today. I should've stamped them out before they could ruin my game, but now it's closed. It's possible I'll reopen when the wounds have healed, but I haven't decided yet.

Now, I find out that those toxic players are taking details from my game to make their own. Yeah, I know it happens a hell of a lot in RP, but this information is resting in the back of my mind and making me want to call them out for their bullshit. I'm trying to just let it go and hit the block button instead, but that's lot harder than you might think. These people managed to make it so that I stopped talking to someone who I spoke to every day, because I just didn't think she wanted to play with me anymore. I'm sure they were feeding her bullshit about me that probably said the same. That's what hurts the most. They fucked with my friendships by being assholes.

Jan. 12th, 2019

[info]steelheart in [info]rpvents

Let's focus on the content of what you're doing.

tw: talk of rape, mental and physical torture & drug abuse )

Jan. 11th, 2019

[info]billdenyed in [info]rpvents

how many times are you going to try to open before you realize maybe you need to make some changes to be successful?

[info]witchbaby in [info]rpvents

I am trying to NOT die a miserable sweaty death from pneumonia AND move across town at the same time (in 5 damn days!!!!) but I SWEAR to you I am still interested in you and our line!

Jan. 10th, 2019


Chrys )

Jan. 9th, 2019

[info]ru4real in [info]rpvents

When will I learn to stay out of game chats? I am a person who does better with face to face communication OOC. I sit and watch others interact and they poke jabs at one another, make borderline vile comments in jest, and make other sarcastic comments and laugh each other off. Whenever I begin to feel like I've gotten the vibe and jump in it always bites me in the rear. Without fail someone takes offense to what I've said which is typically no where near as offensive as some of the things I've seen them say to each other. Typically I mean to be silly or light hearted. Not to mention that my sense of humor is typically full of sarcasm. Guess I need to 100% bow out of chats and just let my characters exist in game and hope they get play which rarely happens if you aren't part of the chat crew. So yeah, it's a damned if you do, damned if you don't scenario for me.

Jan. 6th, 2019

[info]maliciousintent in [info]rpvents

I get prodded into allowing a plot go forward and then, when it's posted, they have changed it completely. Something that was supposed to be a "random act of violence" has suddenly become a very targeted and malicious attack. This was not what we discussed and I'm pretty pissed off.

I'm done. Totally done. They can have their playground.

Jan. 5th, 2019

[info]primitiveheart in [info]rpvents

I must be mistaken, I guess I should apologize for constantly trying to engage in conversation with your character who gives only enough effort to muster up one-word replies after ten minutes that manage to kill every topic imaginable. I also shouldn't expect any effort being put into the character's personality either. How ridiculous of me to assume anyone tries in the world of RP these days.